Happy Motivation Monday! I hope that this message finds you healthy and resuming some level of normalcy. We have all been through a tremendous amount these past… Read more “Motivation Monday”
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Welcome to the New Normal
Like many of us, I have finally accepted that this COVID-19 pandemic isn’t going to blow over anytime soon. I live in a state that hasn’t reopened… Read more “Welcome to the New Normal”
Hang in There
Life has a funny way of working out. We are all umder a tremendous amount of stress and uncertainty at this time. I get it! These are… Read more “Hang in There”
Enjoy the Ride
We are all chasing something. It might be a better career, bigger home, finding the right partner, etc. We all know(at least we believe) that there is… Read more “Enjoy the Ride”
Surround Yourself with People Who’ll Give you the Tough Love you need!
It’s good to be back!! I haven’t posted in a while. I haven’t had the itch. Frankly, I haven’t felt much postive or inspirational to say. I… Read more “Surround Yourself with People Who’ll Give you the Tough Love you need!”
Just smile and take a deep breath!
Have you ever said something that you regret? I know I have. Hell, a younger Dan used to do it way more often. I would get overwhelmed… Read more “Just smile and take a deep breath!”
Be the Hero in your Story!
I’d like to share some awesome advice that I heard on a youtube video by Joe Rogan. He suggests that you should be the hero in your… Read more “Be the Hero in your Story!”
Stay True to Yourself
Life is full of ups and downs, wins and losses etc. Sometimes, you will question yourself. You’ll feel like your not good enough. You’ll wonder if you… Read more “Stay True to Yourself”
Can You Look Yourself in the Mirror?
I’ve made my share of difficult decisions. I’ve learned one thing for certain… people are going to question most of your decisions. Accept it. It’s just part… Read more “Can You Look Yourself in the Mirror?”
Rome wasn’t built in a day…
Self-improvement doesn’t happen overnight. Sure, you’d like it to. But still, it won’t. Any real change and growth takes time. It takes setting a long term goal,… Read more “Rome wasn’t built in a day…”
You are the message!
I spend a lot of time thinking about what to write. What is the message that I want to share with others that I haven’t already? What… Read more “You are the message!”
The Ultimate Win-Win
“You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help enough other people get what they want.” -Zig Ziglar This is one of the… Read more “The Ultimate Win-Win”
It’s never the right time!
What is it that you want to do? What skill do you want to learn? What projects do you want to accomplish? You get the point… Where… Read more “It’s never the right time!”
It will happen when you least expect it…
I had the privilege of sitting with a Vice President of my company this past Thursday morning. We had a great conversation about running a business and… Read more “It will happen when you least expect it…”
Habit 7- Sharpen the Saw
I’d like to paraphrase a story that Dr. Stephen Covey tells in his book ‘7 habits of highly effective people’ A man is walking through the forest… Read more “Habit 7- Sharpen the Saw”
Don’t get overwhelmed!
Life is stressful. You’ve got work obligations, family obligations and other stress on your shoulders at all times. And with advances in technology and the access we… Read more “Don’t get overwhelmed!”
Rebuild Yourself
What to do when the world breaks you… Click to watch an awesome video on Perseverance.
You’ve got to start somewhere…
Do what makes you happy, even if you’ve got a long way to go. Get started with the understanding that you are going to flounder and encounter… Read more “You’ve got to start somewhere…”
Once you’ve committed, you’ve already succeeded!
Take action today! Once you’ve set you goals, take action towards achieving them. Live life today as the person that you want to become. If you want… Read more “Once you’ve committed, you’ve already succeeded!”
Have the courage to see it through!
Whatever you decide to do in life, you need to commit to and give it your full energy. Many times we start a project that is exciting… Read more “Have the courage to see it through!”
Time is sometimes a terrible measuring stick.
Whenever I meet new people at comedy shows I often get the same question, “How long have you done comedy”. This warrants an answer of months or… Read more “Time is sometimes a terrible measuring stick.”
Live in the moment!
We all live very complex and stressful lives. We have to balance our family lives, our work lives, our school lives, our outside activities, etc. We spend… Read more “Live in the moment!”
Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill
‘I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened” -Mark Twain It’s going to be okay. You may… Read more “Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill”
You can’t wait for them to come around
I went through I really bad breakup when I was in my young 20’s. She was a good person who fell into a world of drug use… Read more “You can’t wait for them to come around”
Don’t stop growing
If you want more out of life, you need to be willing to grow and become more. This is a lesson that I learned by listening to… Read more “Don’t stop growing”
The world doesn’t owe you anything
We live in a very entitled world nowadays. People often believe that they are owed something for nothing. Sometime we believe that we are owed a good… Read more “The world doesn’t owe you anything”
Live life in the Triple Threat Position
I fell in love with playing basketball during my formative years. I used to play for hours everyday. It is a great game which taught me many… Read more “Live life in the Triple Threat Position”
It’s not worth it!
Being happy is more important than being right. Being right is overrated. I have spent too much time arguing, trying to prove that I was right about… Read more “It’s not worth it!”
Don’t wait for the acceptance of others!
We all are hard wired to please everyone else. We foolishly tie our self worth to gaining the acceptance of our parents, peers etc. We are willing… Read more “Don’t wait for the acceptance of others!”
A Different Look at Monday
Good morning! Now Im sure that some of us had a tough time getting out of bed this Monday morning. We are dreading what waits for us… Read more “A Different Look at Monday”
Great New Motivational Vlog
It is my honor to share this first vlog from my wife, Kareen Sims. Please visit her site for more at http://www.kareensims.com. Enjoy!
Don’t sacrifice yourself for anyone.
What is it that makes you special? Have you ever taken the time to ask yourself that question? We all have strengths and opportunities. Your strengths are… Read more “Don’t sacrifice yourself for anyone.”
I said that??
I was watching the movie Talladega Nights the other day. I was touched by the scene when Ricky Bobby confronted his father in the street. He told… Read more “I said that??”
Shift your focus to those that matter!
Enjoy the moment. Sure, you made not have the perfect job your aspiring towards yet. You might not have the home, the car,etc. that you dream of/ … Read more “Shift your focus to those that matter!”
Stay the course!
You never know what’s around the corner. Sometimes life puts challenges in your way that seem too big to overcome. You might not get job you’ve been… Read more “Stay the course!”
Don’t take yourself too seriously!
Life is short. That said, you are still going to go through some ups and downs. You’ll have days when everything goes your way and you feel… Read more “Don’t take yourself too seriously!”
Stop Complaining- Nobody Cares!
I found myself in an all too familiar funk today. You know, the usual ‘whoa is me’ bullshit. Today’s situation is irrelevant, it’s the same feeling I… Read more “Stop Complaining- Nobody Cares!”
Be Grateful for What You’ve got!
We all have dreams and goals. Maybe you don’t have the car of your dreams. Maybe you don’t have the job you dream of. Maybe you are… Read more “Be Grateful for What You’ve got!”
Where do you go from here?
Have you ever woke up and asked yourself, How the fuck did I get here? What the fuck was I thinking? How could I have put my… Read more “Where do you go from here?”
Get out of your head
It’s been a rough month. On second thought, maybe it’s been longer. I’m not really sure. I haven’t been blogging because, I didn’t think I had anything… Read more “Get out of your head”
Get started!
Where do you want to be a year from now? Have you given that question any thought? Once you get a clear answer, get started immediately! Take… Read more “Get started!”
Keep it moving!
Sometimes you’ll be intimated. Sometimes you’ll be afraid. Sometimes it will feel like it’s not worth it. Don’t allow that to stop you. Remember why you are… Read more “Keep it moving!”
Happy Fathers Day!
Like pimpin’, fatherhood ain’t easy. It takes a real man to raise thier child. In many cases it is with the help of the mother and in… Read more “Happy Fathers Day!”
Be grateful for all that you have, but don’t stop working!
I know first hand just how dark things can seem sometimes. During the hard times, you study hard and workout hard in hopes to become better and… Read more “Be grateful for all that you have, but don’t stop working!”
Don’t be so hard on yourself!
I’ve found that I am usually much harder on myself when things go wrong. I would beat myself up and say the worst things to myself in… Read more “Don’t be so hard on yourself!”
Everyday has it’s ‘Crisis du jour’
Shane, A good friend of mine, taught me this lesson early my career. Everyday has it’s crisis du jour(crisis of the day). Sometimes it is a level… Read more “Everyday has it’s ‘Crisis du jour’”
Don’t let them change you!
Sometimes, shit happens! Someone might be mad at you because they misinterpreted something you said. Sometimes they might be mad because you screwed up. Or they might… Read more “Don’t let them change you!”
Take Time to Reflect!
I have spent the past few days in one of my favorite places, Wildwood NJ. My fiancee could tell that I was starting to get burned out… Read more “Take Time to Reflect!”
Make it happen!
My last post was about setting goals and clarifying your vision. Find time to do so before you move on to the next step. Now that you’ve… Read more “Make it happen!”
Where are you headed?
What are your goals? What are you dreams? This is not a rhetorical question. Do you know? You need to know where you are heading before you… Read more “Where are you headed?”
Learn to Rest!
If you are going to be successful, you need to learn how to find balance in your life. If you try to go full speed all day… Read more “Learn to Rest!”
How Reliable are you?
Are you someone who can be counted on to be there when you are supposed to? Are you considerate to others and start and end meetings or… Read more “How Reliable are you?”
Good is the Enemy of Great!
This concept was first brought to me by a co-worker named Bob. He read a book that contained this principle and always referenced it from that point… Read more “Good is the Enemy of Great!”
You can’t run forever… I’ve tried!
Life is about personal change and growth. You can’t run from it, at least not forever. Not if you want more in your life. If you want… Read more “You can’t run forever… I’ve tried!”
You can’t please all of the people, all of the time!
The title is part of one of my favorite quotes, made most famous by Abraham Lincoln. Like many people, I have a strong need to be liked.… Read more “You can’t please all of the people, all of the time!”
Bring your smile
Happy Monday! I’m sure everyone is heading into work after the weekend. Don’t be the asshole in the office that walks in miserable with your head down… Read more “Bring your smile”
Slow down!
My mind is always racing. I spend way too much time worrying about what is to come. Not just what is actually going to happen, but all… Read more “Slow down!”
Get Addicted to the Right Things
I am addicted to food. This is not some new revelation, but it is something that I am finally fed up with. I spent some time this… Read more “Get Addicted to the Right Things”
The Roller Coaster Story
I’ve read and listened to a lot of motivational stuff in my time. When you listen to enough, overcoming your fears is a topic that comes up… Read more “The Roller Coaster Story”
You Can’t Wait for Someday to Come!
I have fallen victim to this many times before. I will say that things will work out as soon as I lose weight or get healthier. Then… Read more “You Can’t Wait for Someday to Come!”
Don’t put the cart before the horse!
What does the expression even mean, ‘put the cart before the horse’? Think of the old horse and buggy. The horse needs to be in front to… Read more “Don’t put the cart before the horse!”
Enjoy the ride!
Sometimes you are backed into a corner in life. Things outside of your control surprise you and you need to take action, even though in the grand… Read more “Enjoy the ride!”
Don’t get too high with the highs, or too low with the lows!
I have learned that the key to success is to be humble and not take yourself to seriously. Life is tough and rapidly changes. Sometimes you feel… Read more “Don’t get too high with the highs, or too low with the lows!”
Walk the Talk
A real leader isn’t about their title. It isn’t about their social status. It isn’t because they are perfect. The #1 thing a great leader needs to… Read more “Walk the Talk”
Don’t worry twice
I’ve made this mistake many times in my life. I’ve been nervous about and event I had to go to, or a sports game I was playing… Read more “Don’t worry twice”
It’s Darkest Before the Dawn!
Have you ever felt sad for no reason at all? I have. The first time I read that question was on a personality survey that accompanied a… Read more “It’s Darkest Before the Dawn!”
Ease Back into It!
I know the we are all excited on day 1 of our new diet, healthy lifestyle, or whatever you’d like to call it! We can’t wait to… Read more “Ease Back into It!”
If you Fail to Plan, you are Planning to Fail -Benjamin Franklin
Good Sunday morning! I hope everyone is enjoying the weekend! Now that you’ve hopefully had some time to relax, it’s time to plan for the upcoming week.… Read more “If you Fail to Plan, you are Planning to Fail -Benjamin Franklin”
Time to Drive!!
“It’s driven me before and it seems to have a vague, haunting mass appeal. And lately I’m beginning to find that I should be the one behind… Read more “Time to Drive!!”
Don’t lose sight of what makes you great!
People are going to be quick to point out your flaws. You can’t avoid it(as much as you might want to). Sometimes it is from a place… Read more “Don’t lose sight of what makes you great!”
Ready to Return?
How do you feel the night before you return to work? Do you dread going back, excited to return, or neutral? When interviewing future candidates, they of… Read more “Ready to Return?”
Killed it!!
Last night’s show was awesome. The crowd was great and my routine went off without a hitch. The next step in my journey is to continue to… Read more “Killed it!!”
Stage Fright – lets flush it down the drain.
I was searching for a great post about performing while i am finalizing my act for tonight’s show in Atlantic City. This is a great post about… Read more “Stage Fright – lets flush it down the drain.”
Your Fear is Always Worse Than The Act Itself!
Have you ever sat around terrified of what is about to come? We all have. It’s how you handle the situation that counts. Yesterday I took my… Read more “Your Fear is Always Worse Than The Act Itself!”
Relax and Detach
Today is my first day of a 9 day vacation. I am looking forward to a week where I can relax and recover. It’s mostly a stay-cation,… Read more “Relax and Detach”
Have a Great Monday!
I’m sure some of you want to punch me in the face just for writing the title! But if that’s how you feel, then this post is… Read more “Have a Great Monday!”
It’s your choice!
One time, after moving to a new home, my fiance Kareen and I took some of our old stuff to the flea market(swap meet) to sell some… Read more “It’s your choice!”
Find Happiness Everyday!
“Life’s a journey, not a destination. And you just can’t tell just what tomorrow brings.” – Aerosmith Good morning! What are your plans for today? I am… Read more “Find Happiness Everyday!”
It’s Not What You Say, It’s How You Say It.
Have you ever wondered why some people get away saying things that other’s can’t? Why the same sentence can be a joke for one person, and a… Read more “It’s Not What You Say, It’s How You Say It.”
Get out of your own way!
Let me preface this post by saying this is not for everyone. It just for the people who are like I was 10 years ago. It turns… Read more “Get out of your own way!”
Put in the Time to Learn the Fundamentals
Yesterday, I spent the afternoon with my 6 year old son Charlie at the park. He loves to play basketball, and I love seeing the excitement on… Read more “Put in the Time to Learn the Fundamentals”
Don’t leave it in the hands of the judges!
There’s a saying in the UFC and probably across all combat sports, ‘Don’t leave it in the hands of the judges!’. This means that you should do… Read more “Don’t leave it in the hands of the judges!”
Life’s a numbers game- and it usually takes only one to change everything.
Have you ever been discouraged because you can’t find a job, a partner, etc.? It’s really upsetting when you are banking on the perfect job that you… Read more “Life’s a numbers game- and it usually takes only one to change everything.”
You Have No Credibility if You Don’t Walk the Talk!
I’m sure that you are exceptional at something. It could very well be more than one thing, but I will guarantee that there is at least one.… Read more “You Have No Credibility if You Don’t Walk the Talk!”
Are Things Really That Bad??
I couldn’t sleep last night. Nothing specific happened and there were no stressful situations keeping me up. Still I woke up at 3 am and couldn’t fall… Read more “Are Things Really That Bad??”
There’s Light at the End of the Tunnel
If you are reading this, I bet you have been through a whole lot of shit in your life. That is unless you are under 18 years… Read more “There’s Light at the End of the Tunnel”
Be Careful Who you Keep In Your Inner Circle
Motivational speaking legend Jim Rohn says that you will find yourself in the same status as your 5 closest friends. With that in mind, who do you… Read more “Be Careful Who you Keep In Your Inner Circle”
If It’s Important to Them, It’s Important to You!
Today I am heading to a Bridal Show with my fiance Kareen. There are going to be vendors, giveaway’s and a whole lot more exciting stuff. If… Read more “If It’s Important to Them, It’s Important to You!”
Stay Humble/ Give More!
Let me share a lesson that I learned the hard way the last time I got fit. About 6 years ago, I had lost 100 pounds and… Read more “Stay Humble/ Give More!”
Cooler Heads will Prevail!
Sometimes you need to make a decision in the moment. There are of course some things that can’t wait. Other times there are things that would be… Read more “Cooler Heads will Prevail!”
You Can’t Force Creativity
I have spent all morning thinking of some thing inspiring to say. I kicked around several ideas that we all terrible. My commitment is to not send… Read more “You Can’t Force Creativity”
Search for the Lesson…
After all that I have been through, I have developed a firm belief that everything happens for a reason. It is never easy to see in the… Read more “Search for the Lesson…”
2 Easy Steps for Self-Improvement
In the spirit of New Year’s resolutions, I’d like to share my 2-step plan to change for the better. 2-Step Plan Step 1- Commit to changing your… Read more “2 Easy Steps for Self-Improvement”
Mission Statement
What do you stand for? What do you want to be known for? Why do you get out of bed everyday,? How do you want to help… Read more “Mission Statement”
There is No Such Thing as an Overnight Success!
We’ve all seen it before. The newest star seems to magically come out of nowhere and burst onto the scene as an ‘overnight success’. It is a… Read more “There is No Such Thing as an Overnight Success!”
Take Time to Reflect.
Take advantage of the next few days until new years. It’s a chance to really reflect on your life and decide on what your resolutions should be. … Read more “Take Time to Reflect. “
Whatever you are doing, make an impact!
“Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.” -John F. Kennedy Have you ever felt like whatever you… Read more “Whatever you are doing, make an impact!”
Create Your Own Future!
Here’s a powerful lesson I learned long ago at a workshop with author Brian Biro: The past does not equal the future! It’s really powerful when you… Read more “Create Your Own Future!”
